今天，教了三年级学生这么一个词 -“伤害”。“伤害”不只是指肉体上的伤害，也可以是心灵上的伤害。我要求他们告诉我，在什么时候，我们会伤害到一个人。我刚说完不久，就有一位女生告诉我：“老师，有些人一生下来就没有爸爸，他们被别人取笑时，他们心灵上就会受到伤害！”听到她这么说时，我的心都碎了。这孩子来自单亲家庭，想必她所说的“有一些人”就是自己吧！
据我所知，班上有一些学生是来自单亲家庭的。一些是因为父母离婚了，另一些则是因为父亲或母亲已病逝。小小年纪的他们虽然没有说什么，但偶尔，我可以感受到他们的悲伤。他们不敢告诉其他人，他们来自单亲家庭。他们知道自己的家庭背景与其他人不一样......
我听了她那句话后，对全班同学说，没有爸爸，没有妈妈，并不是他们的错，也不是他们所要的。虽然这一些孩子失去了父爱或母爱，但不代表他们就会变坏，或与常人不一样。取笑来自单亲家庭的孩子的人，是非常不懂事，不会关心别人的人，我们不需要理会他们的话。
希望我的那一番话能鼓励、安慰到那几个孩子。希望他们能健康，快乐地成长。
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May God grant me the serenity to accept the things I cannot change, the courage to change the things I can, and the wisdom to know the difference......
3 comments:
Teacher was right, i shouldn't care about what other say. Infact, we should take good care of ourselves and be a better person. We all also shoulden't say bad things about others, gosip or bully people. We should take good care of ourselves, of others and things around us. :)
i am from a single parent family as well. since primary school, i hate writing composition that concerns family. topics like "我的家庭" or "my father" and etc. every time i have to write these composition, i will be in confusion.
"should i lie or should i not ?" i have to ask myself this question again and again. i remember, there was once, when i was in my primary, i wrote the topic on "my family", i decided to say the truth and left out my father.
in the end, the teacher said to the whole class that i forgot to write about my father.
sometimes, adults really have to pay attention to the child's emotions.
some parents think that they divorce won't affect their kids at all. but in actual fact, they will affect the children tremendously. some kids was led astray because their parents never pay attention to them.
but to those who are from single parent family, i want to say, look things in a different aspect.
these things happen were never our fault. tell yourself that going through all those teasing from friends will make you a better person in future. you will be more matured as compared to the other friends who are same age as you.
cheer up and face these problems bravely !!
lastly, i think lao shi did the right thing. in a way, you told those children who teased the girl that teasing is wrong and on the other hand, u encouraged the girl. =P
JM, I know long time ago that you are from a single parent family. Sort of understand how you feel. My cousins lost their father when they were very young. My uncle passed away when my cousin was five yrs old. Saw him took his last breathe, heard their cries and saw their sadness whenever others talked about their fathers...... I can never forget that.
There is nothing you can do abt such things. Just have to face it bravely. You have done nothing wrong and there is nothing to be ashamed about.
When you become a teacher, try to find out as much as possible abt your pupils background. Our words and actions can usually "make or break" them. Remember this.
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